Do you have problems with your child (or children for that matter) being in front of the computer all day because of gaming? Has your child already turned semi-deaf because it seems that the headphones are already stuck in his ears? Has your child already invaded your computer desk that you cannot access it anymore? Are you having problems with your child getting low grades in school because he (most probably he is a 'he') is always busy shooting down terrorists in front of the computer?
Parents, whether you like it or not, computer games are here to stay. I'm sure you enjoyed computer games at least once in your life but, of course, you have been a responsible gamer, haven't you?
What should you do when your child turns out to be an irresponsible player? Wired.com gives us some tips on how control your children's playing habits:
First of all, it's best if the games that your children will play requires the help of some other gamer. This way, computer gaming becomes a bonding activity for you (if you are a father) and your child, or for your husband (if you are a mother) and your child. But, of course, mother and child video games are welcome as well!
Furthermore, you always have to be strict. Lay down the rules (time limits, doing homework before playing, etc.) and make sure you follow them. If you don't, your child might sense your being lax and ignore you the next time you ordered him/her to stop.
Playing computer games is not bad. If it is, we should've all been bad people. However, everything that is done in excess IS bad. Many teenagers I know have already forgotten to live a life because of these games. What is important is regulation, regulation, regulation. I'm sure you know that.
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